You say you want abundance.
But what happens when it knocks at your door?

A compliment.
A new opportunity.
A higher fee for your work.
Unexpected support.

Do you welcome it, fully, freely, joyfully?
Or do you flinch, deflect, downplay, or delay?

The journey to abundance is often framed around giving, doing, and manifesting more.
But true abundance begins with your capacity to receive.

You Don’t Have a Manifestation Problem. You Have a Receiving Block.

You’ve done the visualisations.
You’ve written the affirmations.
You’ve worked harder, smarter, and stayed “high-vibe.”

And yet…
Something doesn’t quite flow.

Here’s the hidden reason:

You’ve unknowingly built walls against the very blessings you’ve asked for.

Not because you’re broken, but because receiving feels unsafe within your subconscious.

Receiving love? It might make you vulnerable.
Receiving money? It might trigger guilt.
Receiving help? It might feel like weakness.

So, you push it away, even if subtly, silently.

Why We Struggle to Receive

This resistance is rarely conscious. It’s encoded deep within us through:

1. Childhood Conditioning

If you were praised for giving but shamed for wanting…

If you were taught that love had to be earned…

You may have associated receiving with guilt, selfishness, or a loss of control.

2. Societal Programming

Many cultures idolise sacrifice and hustle.
We’re conditioned to believe that being “self-made” is honourable, and needing support is a sign of weakness.

So, you carry the load with pride, even when your soul longs for ease.

3. Energetic Imbalance

Giving and receiving are two ends of the same energetic flow.
The energy becomes blocked and distorted when you over-give without learning to receive.

You become depleted. Resentful. Disconnected from your abundance.

How This Impacts Your Wealth

Abundance isn’t merely about how much you earn.
It’s about how much you can hold, trust, and integrate.

You may increase your income, but still:

• Decline help that could scale your growth
• Undercharge due to feelings of guilt
• Brush off compliments, dimming your visibility
• Procrastinate when claiming what’s already yours

This isn’t a mindset problem.
It’s an energetic capacity problem.

You don’t need to chase more.
You need to open more.

Signs You Have a Receiving Wound

• You feel uncomfortable receiving a gift that feels “too nice.”
• You instinctively offer something back when someone helps you
• You downplay your achievements or wins
• You hesitate to raise your rates or express your needs
• You feel safer giving than receiving

If any of these resonate, don’t worry.
It’s not your fault.
But it is your responsibility to shift it.

Expanding Your Capacity to Receive

Healing isn’t about entitlement; it’s about alignment.

Here’s how you can start:

1. Practice “Stillness Receiving”

Set a timer for five minutes.

Sit in silence and say, “I am open to receive.”

Let the discomfort rise. Let it soften.

You are rewiring a lifetime of over-functioning.

2. Let Compliments Land

Next time someone compliments you, pause.

Say “Thank you.” Let that be enough.

No dismissive jokes. No “Oh, it was nothing.”

Just receive.

3. Track What You Already Receive

Each day, list three things you received:

• A kind word
• A moment of peace
• A small act of support

Train your mind to notice the abundance already present. This strengthens your subconscious permission to receive more.

4. Ask Without Apology

Do so with grace, not guilt, whether it’s asking for support, assistance, or payment.

You are not a burden.

You are not greedy.

You are part of a thriving, reciprocal system.

And that system needs you to take your place in the flow.

5. Balance Your Inner Masculine & Feminine

Giving is a masculine energy.

Receiving is feminine.

Your energy is over-masculinized if you’re always in “go, do, achieve” mode.

To receive, you must soften. Allow. Trust.

Rest. Create. Surrender.

This isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom.

You Were Born to Receive

The sun doesn’t apologise for shining.
The tree doesn’t shrink when it’s watered.
The ocean doesn’t question each wave it’s gifted.

So why should you?

You weren’t created to struggle or earn love through exhaustion.
You were born abundant.
Receiving is your natural state.

The more you allow joy, love, money, and praise, the more the Universe can flow through you.

Because a soul that truly receives doesn’t just collect.
It becomes a channel.
And in that flow, everyone is nourished.

A Gentle Invitation

Today, pause and ask yourself:
“Where am I resisting the blessings I’ve been asking for?”
“What would change if I simply allowed myself to receive?”

Because sometimes, your next breakthrough isn’t about doing more.
It’s about finally letting more in.